Love
Love is an emotion that people have to show affection
for somebody/something which triggers the blushing of crimson, awkwardness,
stalking and anxiety etc. It can also be a virtue representing human kindness, compassion and sacrificing time for the sake of helping others.
Today i would be talking about the love where you are attached to the opposite sex. When love works all the way through, the result could
be a romantic relationship or a rejection that could emotionally hurt a person
and lead to suicidal thoughts/depression. (A.K.A. the friendzone)
Immature love says: 'I love you because I
need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.'
A person’s different side is usually revealed when
you’re trying to show love. Society depicts the ‘different side’ of people as
showing off their bodies, being pervy/flirty, showing their sweeter/nicer side
or embarrassing yourself for the sake of impressing or gaining their crush’s
attention. You can do pretty stupid things without even knowing it when the
flow of love kicks in.
Today i would be talking about the love where you are attached to the opposite sex. When love works all the way through, the result could be a romantic relationship or a rejection that could emotionally hurt a person and lead to suicidal thoughts/depression. (A.K.A. the friendzone)
charlie brown |
Talking
about love, Most people tend to develop crushes towards someone usually in
their high school years. Personally, I think having a crush or girl/boyfriend
relationship in high school is not essential, instead I believe developing
meaningful and long term/eternal relationships with people you haven’t met before
or existing friends is more important, so you could secure strong bonds even
after when we part our own ways after high school!
Having
a crush in high school also generally links to problems on your grades and the
inability to focus in school. You can become possessed by your emotions for
someone and become obsessed on things you’re not supposed to do (e.g. stalking,
creepy things, being socially awkward).
"Love is
putting someone else's needs before yours." Olaf the Snowman
Love in real life is alot more
sophisticated compared to fictional love. I believe that love is a friendship
that is on fire and can never end until you pour a bucket of water onto
it. Fake love is when you do not see through into a person's heart and
love them for another reason. This type of love won't last long and would not
benefit you anyhow. Keep your love in your heart; not in your looks, not
how rich you are, and not your social status.. A life without it is like a
sunless garden when the flowers are dead.
Remember,
Love
is like wielding a dagger.
You
attempt penetrating another being with it, but love can only succeed if the
surrender is mutual.