Wednesday 25 February 2015

What is love?


Love
Love is an emotion that people have to show affection for somebody/something which triggers the blushing of crimson, awkwardness, stalking and anxiety etc. It can also be a virtue representing human kindness, compassion and sacrificing time for the sake of helping others. 
Today i would be talking about the love where you are attached to the opposite sex.  When love works all the way through, the result could be a romantic relationship or a rejection that could emotionally hurt a person and lead to suicidal thoughts/depression. (A.K.A. the friendzone)

Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.'

A person’s different side is usually revealed when you’re trying to show love. Society depicts the ‘different side’ of people as showing off their bodies, being pervy/flirty, showing their sweeter/nicer side or embarrassing yourself for the sake of impressing or gaining their crush’s attention. You can do pretty stupid things without even knowing it when the flow of love kicks in.


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Talking about love, Most people tend to develop crushes towards someone usually in their high school years. Personally, I think having a crush or girl/boyfriend relationship in high school is not essential, instead I believe developing meaningful and long term/eternal relationships with people you haven’t met before or existing friends is more important, so you could secure strong bonds even after when we part our own ways after high school!  


Having a crush in high school also generally links to problems on your grades and the inability to focus in school. You can become possessed by your emotions for someone and become obsessed on things you’re not supposed to do (e.g. stalking, creepy things, being socially awkward). 

          "Love is putting someone else's needs before yours." Olaf the Snowman

Love in real life is alot more sophisticated compared to fictional love. I believe that love is a friendship that is on fire and can never end until you pour a bucket of water onto it. Fake love is when you do not see through into a person's heart and love them for another reason. This type of love won't last long and would not benefit you anyhow. Keep your love in your heart; not in your looks, not how rich you are, and not your social status.. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead.
        
Remember, 
Love is like wielding a dagger. 
You attempt penetrating another being with it, but love can only succeed if the surrender is mutual.




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